The Act As If workshop is an exercise in opening the mind to possibility and change. Creating a bridge of consciousness from the life you are living to the life you desire. An exploration of the thoughts and beliefs that are limiting you in your life experience and the manifestation of your dreams.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011


The other day my boyfriend and I were watching youtube videos on animals. There was a video on the most amazing dolphins. The dolphins were surfing and swimming in the waves. While the surfers watched and surfed. The two of us sat in awe as we watched the incredible show.

The next day early in the morning my boyfriend decided to go surfing. The water was clear and warm. Moments after he paddled out he saw a massive gray figure swim by. Within an instant dolphins were jumping and surfing the waves. Within an instant dolphins were riding and surfing the waves exactly the way they were in the youtube video.

 My boyfriend has been living in Coronado for fourteen years and he sees dolphins often when he is surfing. Never has he witnessed such an amazing display.

Look at what I just wrote. Never has he witnessed such an  amazing display. Why now? Why right after he watched  the youtube video?

Why? because he was vibrating there. His focus was on the amazement of these beautiful creatures. He turned his attention to it long enough for his vibration to send out a frequency to the Universe to bring him a like experience back.

When we pay attention to something long enough we get a demonstration. This includes things we don't want. and the absence of our desires.

What are you putting your attention on?

Act as if...Change Your Life!!!! By acting as if what we are wanting is already in our life we are putting our attention on what we are wanting. We are sending a vibrational frequency out to the Universe. When we hold it there long enough we experience a demonstration.

What do you want? Do you know you can have anything and everything you are wanting?

Choose today to do something different. Choose today to be different.

Ari L

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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

What do you want?

What do you want? What if I were to tell you, you can have what ever you want. All you have to do is Vibrate there.

After my marriage ended I knew I needed to do something different in order to have something different You know the saying different guy same experience. Why is that? It's because you are still the same. You are still vibrating at a level that is going to bring like experiences into your life.

I knew I needed to do something different if I wanted different. Do you want to learn how to do something different?

For 2 1/2 years I focused on raising my vibration. I read books, went to conferences, attended classes, I surrounded my life with positive happy people.

And most important I raised my vibration by acting as if I was already in the most amazing relationship. I acted as if the love of my life sent me roses, he would send me amazing love letters and we would have amazing conversations before I went to bed.
When I went to the movies I would act as if he was sitting next to me. While driving in my car I would always put my hand on the seat next to me acting as if he was there.
I went from the place of already having what I wanted. Most important I went from the feeling place of already having what I wanted.

I raised my vibration. The Universe doesn't know the difference between what you are "imagining" and what is real. What are you imagining? Vibrate there and the Universe will bring it to you like "Magic"

Do you want to know where you are vibrating? Look at your life.

Stay tuned for more amazing true act as if examples. To hear the whole story of how I met the man of my dreams and I am now living in beautiful Coronado you will need to read my best selling book.

Act as if...Change Your Life

Do you want to learn the art of acting as if? Contact me and I can teach you how.I am a Act as if...Change Your Life Coach. I have been acting as if since I was a little girl. I am a true act as if Master.

Ari L

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Ask and it is given

Have you heard of Abraham. Esther and Jerry Hicks co authored the most amazing life changing book called "Ask and it is Given" If you have not read it, I suggest you get it today.

In the book it talks about the importance of asking. We go about our daily business focusing on our to do lists and the huge pile of responsibilities that are in front of us.We forget that we are powerful beings that are connected to the Universe. When we ask it is given every time.

Our job is to raise our vibration to match up to the things we are wanting. Remember everything is vibration.

When we raise our vibration the things we are wanting come to us like magic.

If a waitress comes to your table to take your order and you just sit a stare at her how is she going to know what you want? You need to place your order. Once you have placed your order you need to stand in the place of expectancy. Have absolute Faith and Trust that he chef (Universe) is going to create it perfectly and bring it to you .

Some of us are afraid to ask. I think we don't because we are in fear of not getting what we want. Or we are afraid that if we ask we are being too selfish. Or that we aren't worthy.

"Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results" Do something different!! Do it today.

Ask!!!!!After you ask stand in the place that you have already received it.

That's where Acting as if comes in.

Read my next Blog to hear an amazing story of how I acted as if I had the man of my dreams in my life for two years before I actually met him.

The Universe doesn't know the difference between what you are imagining and what is real.

To be Continued....

Ari L

(Magical like the mermaid)

Monday, June 27, 2011

Act as if...Change Your Life Coach

Do you have a mentor, teacher or a coach? I feel one of the most important things in life is to have support. How often do we have something happen in our lives and we call a friend and complain about it. What does that friend end up doing? They end up feeding the negative vibration by adding to the story. They think they are helping and actually they are helping grow your negative ball (come to one of our workshops to hear the ball story).

We all need support. We can’t do it on our own. One of my teachers is Terry Cole Whitaker. Terry always talks about how important it is to have a teacher. She is always learning and growing she never stops.

I have many teachers and amazing positive influences in my life. One of my most amazing relationships is with my best friend and Act as if…Change Your Life Co-creator Laurie Reynolds.

Laurie is always there for me. Especially when it feels like life has hit me in the head with a two by four. And let me tell you when life feels like that it is so important to have a positive person in your life you can talk to with out feeding the negative ball.

When I call Laurie she allows me the opportunity to get it out of my system and when I’m all done she helps me turn it around. She helps me see the situation differently. She helps me act as if the situations outcome is exactly the way I want it. Instead of focusing on the negative and helping me grow my ball she helps me focus on the positive and helps me grow that ball.

Having a Coach is very important. Do you have one? My Coach is my Best Friend. May I make a suggestion? Find one! Find someone you can trust to help you turn your negative experiences into positive.

Everything we are wanting is vibration. When we are vibrating at a low level, low negative experiences come to us. When we are vibrating at a high level. Amazing positive experiences come to us. Where are you vibrating? Do you need some help?

Laurie and I are both Act as if…Change Your Life Coaches. We can show you how. Leave us a message so you can get started living the life of your dreams by using your imagination and tapping into a very magical Universe!!!

619-876-3598 Ari
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Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Afraid of Getting Lost!

Those of you who know me well know what my biggest fear is. You would think it would be presenting my Act as if… Change Your Life workshop to an audience of 1000 people(that opportunity is coming soon). Yes I would have fear probably all the way up until I was on the stage.and I would get over it quickly. But absolutely nothing compares to my fear of getting lost.

I would be more afraid of not being able to find the conference room then I would be performing in it. I have had the illusion of being bad with directions since I was a little girl. I was the one that would go to the restroom and not be able to find my table when I got out.

This fear of mine has been so debilitating. It has stopped me from enjoying beautiful experiences. I get myself so worked up on the journey that if indeed I get lost on my way I am so overwhelmed once I get there it takes away from the experience.

I recently moved to Coronado where everything around me is new and unfamiliar. I have to find my way around. I am out of my comfort zone. I am in fear of getting lost.

What would I say to one of my Act as if… Change Your Life Clients if they were to tell me this dilemma. I would tell them to act as if they are great with directions. Call u p a friend and tell them how proud they are of themselves and how they are finding their way around their new location beautifully. I would have them write in their Act as if…Change Your Life journal about how great they are with directions and they are getting to know the island perfectly. I would have them create an opportunity that pushes them past their comfort zone.

We need to turn away from what we don’t want and focus on what we do. Stop talking about it in a negative way. An example would be when I tell people I am bad with directions I might get lost and be a little late. I own the fact that I’m bad at directions. I am choosing a different story. I am seeing myself differently.

I am practicing what I preach. And to really make a difference in how I view myself I have applied for Dominos Pizza as a delivery girl. I am really excited about this opportunity. I am going to be able to make some extra money while I find my way around the island. You hear about people that put themselves through acting school by being a waiter or waitress. What better way to support my career then to get myself out in the world facing my fears.

Once I accomplish being the Best pizza delivery girl ever nothing can stop me.

What are your fears? I invite you to create an opportunity to get over your fears. Once you do nothing can stop you. 

I start my  new career as a pizza delivery girl in July. I will keep you posted. And my Act as if…Change Your Life Coaching Career and workshops with beautiful Laurie Reynolds is life changing. I am on an amazing journey and nothing is going to Stop me.

Ari L (Magical like the mermaid)

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

I have arrived!!

I have arrived. Or have I? so many of us get so excited about something we are wanting. When it finally comes to us we have a moment of joy and excitement then after the excitement has settled we find our selves in a place of let down. All the excitement and anticipation has come to an end. We are now longing for something else.

I choose to live in the right now. Being excited for what is right Now! When I live my life this way I am always excited for my amazing life. Knowing that the life we are living is an on going journey brings me so much peace. I am always arriving!!

Come follow our journey Act as if...Change your Life workshops are changing lives. Check out our up coming events. You don't want to miss this amazing opportunity to learn a technique that will change your life forever.

Are you living the life of your dreams? Come join us we will show you how.


Thursday, May 26, 2011

Option 4!

Option 4

In our Act as if…Change your Life workshop I tell an amazing story about Option 4.
 Life is about options! We are the authors of our own story. The options that are given to us are just your basic options. You are given option 1, option 2, and maybe even option 3! Just because you are given the three options doesn’t mean you have to choose any of them. I say create it the way you want it.

I choose Option 4!

Come to one of our amazing act as if…change your life workshops and hear one of the many stories that will help change your life!!! You can also read this story in my book!

Remember my friends we are the writers of our own story. If something is presented to us that we don’t like so much I say get your eraser out. And then write it the way you want it.

Have an amazing day my friends and remember I choose option 4!!!

In 6 months I will be 40!!!! Wow are you ready for an amazing journey!