The Act As If workshop is an exercise in opening the mind to possibility and change. Creating a bridge of consciousness from the life you are living to the life you desire. An exploration of the thoughts and beliefs that are limiting you in your life experience and the manifestation of your dreams.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Dolphins

The other day my boyfriend and I were watching youtube videos on animals. There was a video on the most amazing dolphins. The dolphins were surfing and swimming in the waves. While the surfers watched and surfed. The two of us sat in awe as we watched the incredible show.

The next day early in the morning my boyfriend decided to go surfing. The water was clear and warm. Moments after he paddled out he saw a massive gray figure swim by. Within an instant dolphins were jumping and surfing the waves. Within an instant dolphins were riding and surfing the waves exactly the way they were in the youtube video.

 My boyfriend has been living in Coronado for fourteen years and he sees dolphins often when he is surfing. Never has he witnessed such an amazing display.

Look at what I just wrote. Never has he witnessed such an  amazing display. Why now? Why right after he watched  the youtube video?

Why? because he was vibrating there. His focus was on the amazement of these beautiful creatures. He turned his attention to it long enough for his vibration to send out a frequency to the Universe to bring him a like experience back.

When we pay attention to something long enough we get a demonstration. This includes things we don't want. and the absence of our desires.

What are you putting your attention on?

Act as if...Change Your Life!!!! By acting as if what we are wanting is already in our life we are putting our attention on what we are wanting. We are sending a vibrational frequency out to the Universe. When we hold it there long enough we experience a demonstration.

What do you want? Do you know you can have anything and everything you are wanting?

Choose today to do something different. Choose today to be different.

Ari L
619-876-3598

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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

What do you want?

What do you want? What if I were to tell you, you can have what ever you want. All you have to do is Vibrate there.

After my marriage ended I knew I needed to do something different in order to have something different You know the saying different guy same experience. Why is that? It's because you are still the same. You are still vibrating at a level that is going to bring like experiences into your life.

I knew I needed to do something different if I wanted different. Do you want to learn how to do something different?


For 2 1/2 years I focused on raising my vibration. I read books, went to conferences, attended classes, I surrounded my life with positive happy people.

And most important I raised my vibration by acting as if I was already in the most amazing relationship. I acted as if the love of my life sent me roses, he would send me amazing love letters and we would have amazing conversations before I went to bed.
When I went to the movies I would act as if he was sitting next to me. While driving in my car I would always put my hand on the seat next to me acting as if he was there.
I went from the place of already having what I wanted. Most important I went from the feeling place of already having what I wanted.

I raised my vibration. The Universe doesn't know the difference between what you are "imagining" and what is real. What are you imagining? Vibrate there and the Universe will bring it to you like "Magic"

Do you want to know where you are vibrating? Look at your life.

Stay tuned for more amazing true act as if examples. To hear the whole story of how I met the man of my dreams and I am now living in beautiful Coronado you will need to read my best selling book.

Act as if...Change Your Life

Do you want to learn the art of acting as if? Contact me and I can teach you how.I am a Act as if...Change Your Life Coach. I have been acting as if since I was a little girl. I am a true act as if Master.

Ari L
changemyllifecoach@gmail.com

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Ask and it is given

Have you heard of Abraham. Esther and Jerry Hicks co authored the most amazing life changing book called "Ask and it is Given" If you have not read it, I suggest you get it today.

In the book it talks about the importance of asking. We go about our daily business focusing on our to do lists and the huge pile of responsibilities that are in front of us.We forget that we are powerful beings that are connected to the Universe. When we ask it is given every time.

Our job is to raise our vibration to match up to the things we are wanting. Remember everything is vibration.

When we raise our vibration the things we are wanting come to us like magic.

If a waitress comes to your table to take your order and you just sit a stare at her how is she going to know what you want? You need to place your order. Once you have placed your order you need to stand in the place of expectancy. Have absolute Faith and Trust that he chef (Universe) is going to create it perfectly and bring it to you .

Some of us are afraid to ask. I think we don't because we are in fear of not getting what we want. Or we are afraid that if we ask we are being too selfish. Or that we aren't worthy.

"Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results" Do something different!! Do it today.

Ask!!!!!After you ask stand in the place that you have already received it.

That's where Acting as if comes in.

Read my next Blog to hear an amazing story of how I acted as if I had the man of my dreams in my life for two years before I actually met him.

The Universe doesn't know the difference between what you are imagining and what is real.

To be Continued....

Ari L

(Magical like the mermaid)

Monday, June 27, 2011

Act as if...Change Your Life Coach

Do you have a mentor, teacher or a coach? I feel one of the most important things in life is to have support. How often do we have something happen in our lives and we call a friend and complain about it. What does that friend end up doing? They end up feeding the negative vibration by adding to the story. They think they are helping and actually they are helping grow your negative ball (come to one of our workshops to hear the ball story).

We all need support. We can’t do it on our own. One of my teachers is Terry Cole Whitaker. Terry always talks about how important it is to have a teacher. She is always learning and growing she never stops.

I have many teachers and amazing positive influences in my life. One of my most amazing relationships is with my best friend and Act as if…Change Your Life Co-creator Laurie Reynolds.

Laurie is always there for me. Especially when it feels like life has hit me in the head with a two by four. And let me tell you when life feels like that it is so important to have a positive person in your life you can talk to with out feeding the negative ball.

When I call Laurie she allows me the opportunity to get it out of my system and when I’m all done she helps me turn it around. She helps me see the situation differently. She helps me act as if the situations outcome is exactly the way I want it. Instead of focusing on the negative and helping me grow my ball she helps me focus on the positive and helps me grow that ball.

Having a Coach is very important. Do you have one? My Coach is my Best Friend. May I make a suggestion? Find one! Find someone you can trust to help you turn your negative experiences into positive.

Everything we are wanting is vibration. When we are vibrating at a low level, low negative experiences come to us. When we are vibrating at a high level. Amazing positive experiences come to us. Where are you vibrating? Do you need some help?

Laurie and I are both Act as if…Change Your Life Coaches. We can show you how. Leave us a message so you can get started living the life of your dreams by using your imagination and tapping into a very magical Universe!!!

619-876-3598 Ari
619-922-2017 Laurie

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Afraid of Getting Lost!

Those of you who know me well know what my biggest fear is. You would think it would be presenting my Act as if… Change Your Life workshop to an audience of 1000 people(that opportunity is coming soon). Yes I would have fear probably all the way up until I was on the stage.and I would get over it quickly. But absolutely nothing compares to my fear of getting lost.

I would be more afraid of not being able to find the conference room then I would be performing in it. I have had the illusion of being bad with directions since I was a little girl. I was the one that would go to the restroom and not be able to find my table when I got out.

This fear of mine has been so debilitating. It has stopped me from enjoying beautiful experiences. I get myself so worked up on the journey that if indeed I get lost on my way I am so overwhelmed once I get there it takes away from the experience.

I recently moved to Coronado where everything around me is new and unfamiliar. I have to find my way around. I am out of my comfort zone. I am in fear of getting lost.

What would I say to one of my Act as if… Change Your Life Clients if they were to tell me this dilemma. I would tell them to act as if they are great with directions. Call u p a friend and tell them how proud they are of themselves and how they are finding their way around their new location beautifully. I would have them write in their Act as if…Change Your Life journal about how great they are with directions and they are getting to know the island perfectly. I would have them create an opportunity that pushes them past their comfort zone.

We need to turn away from what we don’t want and focus on what we do. Stop talking about it in a negative way. An example would be when I tell people I am bad with directions I might get lost and be a little late. I own the fact that I’m bad at directions. I am choosing a different story. I am seeing myself differently.

I am practicing what I preach. And to really make a difference in how I view myself I have applied for Dominos Pizza as a delivery girl. I am really excited about this opportunity. I am going to be able to make some extra money while I find my way around the island. You hear about people that put themselves through acting school by being a waiter or waitress. What better way to support my career then to get myself out in the world facing my fears.

Once I accomplish being the Best pizza delivery girl ever nothing can stop me.

What are your fears? I invite you to create an opportunity to get over your fears. Once you do nothing can stop you. 

I start my  new career as a pizza delivery girl in July. I will keep you posted. And my Act as if…Change Your Life Coaching Career and workshops with beautiful Laurie Reynolds is life changing. I am on an amazing journey and nothing is going to Stop me.

Ari L (Magical like the mermaid)

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

I have arrived!!

I have arrived. Or have I? so many of us get so excited about something we are wanting. When it finally comes to us we have a moment of joy and excitement then after the excitement has settled we find our selves in a place of let down. All the excitement and anticipation has come to an end. We are now longing for something else.

I choose to live in the right now. Being excited for what is right Now! When I live my life this way I am always excited for my amazing life. Knowing that the life we are living is an on going journey brings me so much peace. I am always arriving!!

Come follow our journey Act as if...Change your Life workshops are changing lives. Check out our up coming events. You don't want to miss this amazing opportunity to learn a technique that will change your life forever.

Are you living the life of your dreams? Come join us we will show you how.

Ari

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Option 4!

Option 4

In our Act as if…Change your Life workshop I tell an amazing story about Option 4.
 Life is about options! We are the authors of our own story. The options that are given to us are just your basic options. You are given option 1, option 2, and maybe even option 3! Just because you are given the three options doesn’t mean you have to choose any of them. I say create it the way you want it.

I choose Option 4!

Come to one of our amazing act as if…change your life workshops and hear one of the many stories that will help change your life!!! You can also read this story in my book!


Remember my friends we are the writers of our own story. If something is presented to us that we don’t like so much I say get your eraser out. And then write it the way you want it.

Have an amazing day my friends and remember I choose option 4!!!

In 6 months I will be 40!!!! Wow are you ready for an amazing journey!

Ari


Monday, May 23, 2011

Think and Grow....

Think and Grow…


I say think and grow what ever you want! This is my life to live as I choose. And these are my thoughts to think as I choose. Think and Grow beautiful relationships. Think and Grow vibrant Health. Think and grow a beautiful fulfilling career. Think and grow a million dollars.

I say think and grow whatever you want! Our thoughts are so powerful! We can create what we are wanting by the thoughts we think. And to take it a step further get the thoughts out of your mind and physically act as if what you are wanting is yours!

I am an act as if coach . I teach you how to tap into your imagination and have fun! The Universe doesn’t know the difference between what you are imagining and what is real. This technique is tried and true. Try it and watch  “magic” happen.

When you are acting like what you are wanting is already yours the Universe gives you like vibration back!

In Our Act as if…Change Your Life workshops Laurie and I teach you amazing techniques on acting as if. I tell life changing stories about the many  things in my life that have been created by me acting as if what I want is already mine.

Laurie takes it a step further and explains the scientific approach to acting as if.

I say think and grow what ever you want! In 187 days I have declared  I am a millionaire making a difference in the World! I am acting and thinking like a millionaire!

Come follow our journey. Do you think it is possible for someone to think and act like they are millionaires and become one?

I say Yes!

Have an amazing day creating what you want!

Ari

Check out our schedule and come join us for an upcoming event. If you are interested in us coming out to your group or organization let us know! We are helping change lives!

Friday, May 20, 2011

Placebo Power!

Hi all, this is Laurie, the Science part of the Act As If team.
I thought you should know that science is now confirming the bio technology behind the effectiveness of acting as if. You may have heard of it as "the Placebo effect". The brain does not know the difference between your experiencing something or imagining it. The same neurons fire either way. When you invoke the power of your imagination, you stimulate neuro- pathways in your brain! When you keep your focus on the feeling of the having of something, rather than the feeling of not having it, what you are vibrating is the having of it. When you combine that with physical action you create a more powerful vibration about it. When you have a more powerful vibration about it and you keep your focus on allowing, then the having of it will become a physical reality. It is a Universal law. Learn how to use the power of the placebo effect by acting as if, and changing your life!
Here's to your empowerment!
Laurie

Thursday, May 19, 2011

I am a Best Selling Author!

My book is underway and this feels really good. I know my words are received beautifully. People feel motivated and inspired after they read my book. I am making a difference in people's lives and this feels good!

The words flow out of me with absolute grace and ease. I am on purpose and this journey has been absolutely amazing.

Thank you to all of you for being a part of it. When I say all of you I mean every single person that has been a part of my life. The ones I have known my whole life and to the ones I will meet tomorrow.

Magic is happening can you feel it?

Have a magical day,

Ari

Act as if...change your life!
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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Im-possible

Is it possible to have perfect vibrant health? I say yes!! Anything is possible why because im-possible. The word in-curable means we need to go within.

 If you are suffering from an incurable disease do you think it is possible by acting as if you are completely healed, you will be?

I say YES! Our imaginations are powerful! When we focus on what we are wanting raise our vibration and turn our energy away from what we don’t want, Magic happens!

Rewrite your story and leave the dis-ease out of it. See your self as a whole and perfect. When you talk to your friends and family about how you are doing only talk about the positive. We get so attached to our story that we start to believe it.

What if everything is an illusion? What if the reason we are sick is because we think we are? What if we were to think differently? Our minds are so powerful!

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. Do something different. This is our lives to live as we choose. What do you choose?  I choose perfect vibrant health.

I am an act as if …change your life coach. Are you sick? Are you tired of being sick? I can teach you an amazing technique that will teach you how to live the life of your dreams. Nothing is impossible. Because im-possible and so are you!

Read my book and learn about my mini-men and how I went from being diagnosed with an incurable disease to perfect vibrant health.

Have an amazing day filled with vibrant energy and remember act as if...change your life!

Ari

Monday, May 16, 2011

194 Days!

In 194 days I have declared I am a millionaire. Why a millionaire? Why not! I say reach for the stars and if you hit the moon it is a lot better than reaching for the light post.

I have amazing demonstrations by acting as if what I want is already mine. I met the man of my dreams by acting as if.

The Universe says yes. It’s up to us to let the Universe know what it is we want. If we don’t ask how will we be able to receive? A lot of the time we don’t ask in fear that what we want isn’t possible. I say everything is possible. If you see it as im-possible I say look again.

When you go to a restaurant the waiter/waitress takes your order. For you to get what you want you need to place your order. If you can’t make up your mind and make a decision your order won’t be placed. If you aren’t clear on what you want how is the Universe supposed to know?

The Chef is the Universe! The Universe is going to fill your order every time.  For you to receive what you want you are going to have to place your order. Once you have placed your order, your job is to focus on raising your vibration. And trusting the waitress is going to bring you what you want.

As soon as you raise your vibration to match what you want, Magic happens!!!!

Come follow me for the next 194 days and watch my amazing journey unfold!

Ask
Source Answers
You receive
Every time
                  Abraham

Ari


Sunday, May 15, 2011

El Camino High School

To all the teenagers out there this one is for you!

Yesterday was the most amazing day. I had the incredible opportunity to present my life changing workshop to a group of beautiful teenage girls at El Camino High School.

This is to you girls. Remember who you are. Remember you are the author of your own story. You get to write it exactly the way you want it.

What do you want? Get out your Act as if…Change your Life Journal and write it down. Write it as if it has already happened.

Do an act as if phone call and tell all your friends that life is good. Tell your friends you just met the greatest guy ever and he gets really good grades and he is nice and everybody loves him. Tell your friends that he bought you flowers and he holds your books and tells you, you are beautiful even when you aren’t wearing makeup.

Write him an Act as if…Change your life letter and tell him how much he means to you!!!

You can use this technique in any area of your life. What do you want? Write it down.

Come out and join me June 4th in Laguna Beach for a fun exciting day. Bring your friends and your parents. This workshop is for everybody!!!!

You are all so beautiful and amazing! Thank you for sharing your day with me yesterday.

Remember Act as if…Change Your Life

All my love,

Ari

Friday, May 13, 2011

Life is a story!

What if I were to tell you that our life is a story and we are the author. We can write it any way we want. Our lives, up until now are based on random thoughts which cause random experiences. Trained thought is more powerful than untrained thought.

What do you want? You are the co-creator of your life. Everything you are experiencing right now today is from thoughts and beliefs of yesterday. Can you have the life of your dreams? I say yes! How would you feel if from this moment on you can choose to write your story the way you want it!?

We all have our story. It’s up to us to decide what we want to do with it. We can let it take us down and cause us to be miserable or we can choose differently. I choose to have the life of my dreams. I choose to be the author of my own story.

I have lived a very incredible life. I have had experiences and situations that could cause me to loose faith.

My adventurous life started when I was six years old laying on the floor of an 82 ft yacht in Peru with a machine gun pointed to my back.( You will have to wait until my movie to hear that story)

I was diagnosed with an incurable disease; I went through a bitter, painful divorce, bankruptcy and foreclosure. I have my story and I know I can choose to write it differently. In fairy tales there is always a happy ending. It starts off dramatic and filled with drama. At the end there is a happy ending. The writer chooses the destiny of all of the characters.

We are in our own movie. You are the star, director, producer and best of all the writer.

Get a journal and start to write your story. What does your perfect life look like? What does it feel like?

Act as if you are already living the life of your dreams. Focus on what you want. Turn your attention away from what you don’t want.

We can have the life of our dreams, it is up to us!!!!!!

Have an amazing, adventurous, exciting, beautiful, life Changing Day!

(I am an act as if…change your life coach. Do you need some help writing your story?)

Ari

Friday, May 6, 2011

The Power of the pen!

What do you want? Write it down like it has already happend.

I am so grateful I have been guided to Wayne Dyer. He thinks what I am doing is amazing and he wants to take me under his wing and teach me everything he knows. Our energy matches so beautifully. He has been such an important teacher and I know I have the most amazing opportunity. He has invited me to Maui and we are doing a workshop together. Mr. Dyer is one of the most amazing men I have ever met. Wow this journey is so amazing!!

The universe doesn't know the difference between what is real or when you are acting as if. It will Match you up to the like vibration and bring it to you like "Magic" Everytime.

What do you want? Write it down.....

204 More day's until I'm a millionaire!

Have an amazing day

Ari

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Feel the Fear and Do It anyway!

Are in your Fear? I say feel the fear and do it anyway. Do you know how many ideas stay on the table or end up on the floor because we allow fear to creep in and take over.

Fear is an amazing powerful tool. When we don't see fear as bad we are able to tap into its amazing power.

Feel the fear and do it anyway. Any emotion we have is our guidance system to what is being created. Emotions are extremly important. The problems is when we try to stuff down our emotions or think we are weak because we feel them.

Did you know any dream is possible even if you are in fear. I say feel that fear imbrace it. Ask it questions and learn from it.

The world needs us! Are you living small because you think you aren't good enough? Are you afraid you might fail? What will people think?

Terry Cole Whitaker says it beautifully "What you think of me is none of my business"

Imbrace your dreams today! Tap into your imagination. Act as if what you are wanting is already yours.

We can have the life of our dreams. I promise!! I am here to show you the way and be an example of how this works!

This is all about the journey my friends.

I say shoot for the Stars and if you hit the moon it is a lot better then shooting for the lamp post.

Have an amazing day

Ari

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Wow!

Amazing things are happening right Now! I can feel it. I am being guided to all of the right people at the right time. I state what I am wanting very clearly. I am making a difference in the world.

Amazing people and opportunities are being guided to me right Now! I am always guided. My mission in life is to make a difference in the world. how may I serve?

My phone rings all day today with eager people that want to be a part of my journey. I receive life changing e-mails and letters!

206 more days until I am a millionaire making a difference.

I am excited for this life changing journey. The more I make the bigger difference I can Make!

Bring it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am ready!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Enjoy the day my friends

Ari

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Happy Birthday Laurie!

Today is dedicated to Laurie Reynolds. Laurie is one of the most important people in my life. Do you have someone that is irreplaceable? That is exactly how I would describe Laurie. We have been best friends for about 7 years now and the journey we have been on has been absolutely amazing!

Not only is she my best friend but she is also the most amazing massage therapist ever and I’m not just saying that because she is my best friend. Laurie doesn’t just give you a massage. Laurie taps into a higher source and allows your body to talk to her. She is able to intuitively work on the areas that are in need.

Laurie uses Young Living Essential oils during her massages. These oils are alive and filled with the most beautiful energy. This is a massage like you have never experienced. She isn’t just treating the outer body she is treating the whole body. Spirit, Mind and Body.

Laurie is also a workshop facilitator. She has partnered with me and we have created a life changing workshop that will transform your life to a whole new level. Act as if…Change yourLlife is making a difference!

Today is dedicated to you my sweet, beautiful best friend. Happy Birthday to you and always remember no matter where this journey takes us you will always be my best friend.

Happy Birthday!!!! Make a wish and watch Magic happen.

All my love,

Ari

Monday, May 2, 2011

Loving What is!

Loving what is!

I choose to love what is. I believe so many of us believe once we accomplish something than we will be happy. Have that perfect relationship, get that perfect job, loose 20 lbs. I say love what is and watch magic happen.

When I was single. I was so lonely and truly believed that once the man of my dreams was guided to me than I would be happy. It wasn’t until I made the shift of loving what is, that it was possible for the man of my dreams to be guided to me.

There are two ways to be single, miserable or loving what is. As soon as I was able to truly love what is the man of my dreams was able to come into my life.

When you wake up in the morning are you saying Yes!!!? And waking up before your alarm. Or are you miserable and dreading your day. I say love what is. Focus on raising your vibration and have fun using your imagination and acting as if.

What if you had the life of your dreams right now? What would that look like? What would that feel like? Now go enjoy your day coming from that vibration!

Why do I know in 208 days I am a millionaire? Because I think I am. Why am I living the life of my dreams? Because I think I am.

Have an amazing day my friends, enjoy it!

Ari

Sunday, May 1, 2011

The Power of Decission

What do you want? Take a few minutes to write down what you are wanting. Truly ask yourself, what do I Want?

Now make the decision to do, be or have what you are wanting.

I have made the decision to be rich!

Making the decision is the first powerful step. No one else is responsible for your life. No one else can tell you what you want. Only you can.

Now that you have made a decision act as if what you are wanting is already in your life. Take the idea out of your mind and act as if what you are wanting is already yours.

I am rich and I surround myself with amazing, powerful, influential people. I Act as if these great people are my friends and they call me to check in. I act as if I am invited to life changing events where I am able to give massive amounts of money to life changing causes. I act as if I am invited to present my amazing workshop to massive groups of over 1000 people and I get a standing ovation. I act as if I receive 100's of thank you cards in the mail from people telling me I have made a difference in their lives.

What does all of this feel like? This feels like freedom. This feels like fun. This feels like a dream come true. All your dreams are your reality. When you raise your vibration the things you are wanting come to you like “Magic”

Make the decision to be rich, healthy, in a loving amazing relationship, to be making a difference in the world. Make a decision to not live small. The world needs us and I choose to live a grand life. I have made the decision to live a grand life!!!!

What decision have you made?

Love to you all. Now go out use your imagination and watch magic happen,
Read my e-book and I will tell you an amazing act as if...change your life story and I will give you life changing tools and techniques.
Ari